Cake for Breakfast

Between the fact that I was bursting with love for The Holiday Council and my general babbling about fixing the assorted cracks and fissures in my life, I’ve been on a bit of a life-coach-blog-reading, someone-tell-me-how-to-person, quarter-life-crisis, oh-my-god-when-did-I-become-the-kind-of-person-who-uses-the-term-quarter-life-crisis? kick lately. Enter, Cake For Breakfast. A 45 page workbook, audio sessions, and weekly journal prompts from […]

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Calm Disasters

Friday was the twentieth anniversary of the Northridge Earthquake. Twenty years ago I was woken up by a dream that our house (in Northridge) was being picked up by a tow truck. I can still see this image in my mind as clearly as if it happened yesterday. I called the tow truck a pickup […]

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Handling My Shit

Week two and I’m already floundering a bit on my new blogging schedule. Time to re-group, relax that starting goal a bit. Going from two posts in the whole of December to three days a week in January was a bit ambitious. A lot ambitious. In thinking about this, it occurs to me that I […]

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They can’t all be winners.

“They can’t all be winners,” or, “one of my 2014 goals is honesty and that means I’m going to post even the pointless drafts I should keep to myself.” Those of you lucky enough to be in non-miserable temperatures or those of you with ice in your veins may well have grown tired of hearing […]

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home, definition

As I suspect I’ve mentioned a time or twenty, I have a complicated relationship with my current residence. It’s only fairly recently that I’ve even been willing to refer to it as my home town. Calling it my “home town” has a weird feeling to it. It sounds like a fictional story I’m telling. Part […]

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2013 In Review

I spent the month of December doing a lot of big, exciting 2014 planning with The Stratejoy Holiday Council and it was an excellent life choice. I am now in a much better place heading into 2014; I was able to lay a lot of bad, ugly things from 2013 to bed. I got a […]

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Intention

This post is sponsored by Make Your Money Matter, in association with PSCU, though all views expressed are my own. – The new year is just around the corner and one of my major personal goals is to be more purposeful in all the choices that I’m making. I make so many decisions in a […]

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Seeds

I have always been infinitely better at ideas than follow-through. I would devolve into a hot mess of remorse if I lost sleep over all the thought-seeds I have scattered across the earth without harvesting them. Plant that shit for somebody else. Nobody wants it? Oh well. This is part of why I actively force […]

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Thinking Local

This post is sponsored by Make Your Money Matter, in association with PSCU, though all views expressed are my own. – The great divide between my adolescent self and my vague-approximation-of-adulthood self really boils down to money. (Which is part of why there was this phase between the two where I was maturationally ambiguous. Don’t […]

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